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L.I.F.E. by Ashley Pichea

Christian writer and speaker Ashley Pichea shares her heart as she encourages women in their walks with the Lord through the written and spoken word.

5.30.2009

Riding in Cars with Girls - Gilmore Girls, that is...

Usually I come up with my title before I start writing in order to somewhat guide my thoughts, but tonight a title eludes me, so I'll attempt to get my thoughts out in some semblance of order, but since my blog is "random", you might just get random tonight.

I spent a lot of time in the van over the last two days. I rode while Jason drove for 3 hours yesterday on our extra long trip to Brooklyn/Jackson (we "missed" our exit then tried to find a "detour" but left our GPS at home, since we were going to Mom and Dad's and "knew the way", and we ended up backtracking quite a bit), then another 45ish minutes to/from dinner at Outback. I tried out our new DVD players on the way up to MI - Jenny watched Dora in the back and I watched Gilmore Girls in the front. Today, I drove an hour to Battle Creek for a bridal shower (and an hour back to Brooklyn/Jackson). I was really wishing I had a tape recorder or voice dictation machine on the way back from BC - my brain was going a hundred miles a minute and I wanted to get all my thoughts out so I could focus on just driving instead of mulling. Then, I spent another 2.5 hours riding back to Warsaw tonight (more GG and Dora) - plus a few bathroom breaks for Jenny since she insisted on drinking ALL of her juice as soon as we got in the car. I found myself wishing I had some way of blogging while I was riding &/or driving. It seems like my brain tends to run on FULL speed ahead when I can't write and get everything out.

I almost broke down on my mom in the parking lot at the church this afternoon. (Sorry, Mom.) I'm not sure what's the matter with me. Probably a mixture of a lack of sleep (so why am I still up?), overly abundant hormones (I'm blaming this on David and my monthly cycle), and actually having real conversations with people at the shower this morning (versus the usual "surface conversations" I have with anybody who I normally come into contact with). All I know is that I wanted to crawl into a little ball and sleep for a VERY long time. Thankfully, God and I had a nice long talk on the way back to Jxn/Brkln - yeah for good long drives - and by the time I got back to Mom and Dad's, my emotions were in check and I was able to relax (even got a short nap - while watching TV with the family).

Tomorrow is church... kind of up in the air about church right now. We've been thinking about stuff concerning church... can't really say too much on here right now, especially since it's all just thinking right now, but if you want to know and want to way-in, leave a message and I'll email you with my thoughts... or maybe give me a couple of weeks and then I'll have some more structure to my thoughts and I'll use them for a post... let's just say, for now, that we're talking to God a lot right now about church and His will for us concerning church (and a lot of other things in life).

I think I need to go spend some more time talking to God, and then I need to sleep. My kids need "super mom" to come back this week, especially since we're leaving Thursday to go visit my brother and SIL for a week, so I'd better get rested up and prayed up!

Q4U: What are you thinking about lately? Are you talking to God about anything specific this week? What do you do on long car rides? Any good ideas for ways to entertain a 2yo and 8mo on a 12+ hour car ride? (We've got two headed our way the next two Thursday - to DE and from DE.) Any topics you'd like to see me cover with my random thoughts?

Have a GREAT rest of the weekend! Hopefully I'll be back again before we leave Thursday, and possibly some posts while we're gone...

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5.28.2009

May 28, 2005

Having tried to go to bed "early" the night before, even though my best friend and sister and I were having a sleepover in the back hallway, I had been pretty unsuccessful at getting very much sleep. Way too much on my mind - I'm one of those people that can't sleep when I have a lot of details to think about the next day. Plus, it probably wasn't a good idea to sleep on the floor that night.

I popped a couple of Advil, showered, dressed, grabbed some breakfast, and barely made it out the door on time. Getting to church thirty minutes or so after we'd agreed to meet, I rushed in the door and started getting things ready. My dad had been at the church getting things going for an hour or so by the time we finally made it there. Hair and makeup were first - I did my makeup, my sister-in-law's hair, and my aunt helped with my hair. A quick check to make sure everything was set for the day - tables set and decorated, flowers delivered, dinner started and set-up, snacks for the morning, the sanctuary decorated and ready to go.

The photographer arrived and started taking pictures of our preparations. A few of the dress, me before the dress, me after the dress, final touches of makeup and hair. My mom helped me lace up my dress. My girls were putting on their dresses, touching up their hair and makeup, and getting ready for the staged photos.

Checking the clock, we were running "late" - we were scheduled to start "formal" photos fifteen minutes earlier. I started to panic - we wouldn't be done with pictures before people started to show up! Deep breath... we'd make it work. After all, my mom and I had built some extra time in the schedule to allow for delays.

I walked into the hallway... oohs and ahhs sounded from those helping to get things ready for 2pm. I had the sanctuary cleared except for the photographer and J (although I'm pretty sure there were a few stragglers still in there).

Pictures went by in a blur. Look here, smile here, stand there, hold this. Before I knew it, the pictures were done and we were back in the snack area, trying to refuel ourselves before the ceremony. As guests started to arrive, a few stopped by the holding room to say "hello" and sneak a look at the bride.

Finally, it was time. I leaned over and told my dad that under no circumstances was he allowed to cry on the way to the front of the sanctuary. The doors opened. The girls went down the aisle one at a time - Tiffany, Holly, Alyssa, and Kelly. The doors closed, the music changed, and we stepped into the hallway. The doors opened and we began our trek to the front of the church.

Thirty minutes later, it was over. I was married. The ceremony was finished. A few Scripture passes, a few vows, a song, and a good laugh. It was time for FOOD! We greeted our guests as they made their way to the reception - fun and games awaited them while we finished up a few last pictures.

We made our entrance to the reception, got some food (didn't eat much of it), watched a video of our lives, had some cake, and made rounds to all of the tables. The time flew by. When people started to leave, we escaped to change our clothes and make our escape. My mom and MIL came to see us off - we snuck out the back door of the church into a vehicle with tinted windows and were taken to our "hide out" to wait for the guests to leave town.

We ended up hanging out with some "old" friends for a couple of hours while we waited for the coast to clear, since we were staying in town for the night and didn't want any company at our hotel.

Once we decided the coast was clear, we headed to the hotel and attempted to get into our room. (J had stayed there the night before.) There was a little league baseball team in the room. We went down to the front desk and they realized the mixup (thankfully, J had taken all his stuff out of the room that morning), and gave us a better room on the main floor.

We went in the room and went to sleep... hahaha... yeah right, but you're not getting details!

Four years and two kids ago today... seems like another lifetime ago. Happy Anniversary, J!

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5.27.2009

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5.26.2009

Sending my 2yo to college...

Well, not quite. But I am getting ready to start preschool/kindergarten with her in the fall.

I discovered the teacher resource area in the children's section at our local library today. Let's just say I'm overjoyed at the resources I have at my disposal! I picked up a few books today and started to plan for the fall (since I have a feeling it will be here long before I'm ready for it to be here)...

I was VERY excited about the book on the bottom - "Let's Read!" It's a month-by-month guide to teaching reading starting with the basics. This book will be getting a workout at our house over the next year!

I sat down this afternoon and planned out the rough draft of what our school year will look like next year. I planned five units (with themes) of six weeks each, along with a two week unit for Christmas, and a planning week between each unit (to finalize plans for the upcoming unit based on our current progress). I'm excited for the fall to get here!

Over the summer, we will continue to work on letter recognition and sound, as well as number recognition. Jenny is picking up on concepts and ideas that most 3 and 4 year olds don't grasp yet. I can't wait to watch her learn to read!

Q4U: What have you been up to today? Are you planning anything exciting for the days, weeks, months, years ahead? Any homeschooling advice for me?

I hope you all have a GREAT week! I know I will - it's short and busy!

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5.24.2009

Christianity in Crisis: 21st Century, by Hank Hanegraaff

This book addresses some major concerns in Christianity today, especially in America. There is an abundance of falsehood weaving its way into the Church, and Hank Hanegraaff has written this book to expose it, identify it, and rid the Church of it. The book is full of researched data, well written arguments, and thought-provoking information.

Though the book is full of well researched and well documented information, it seems to be quite repetitive and redundant in its approach of presenting the information. It is a point-blank book. Hank does not skirt around the issues and is quick to point fingers (with extensive research and evidence to back him) at many of today’s “popular” preachers and churches. I appreciated his bold approach to the issues, bringing them to the surface and supporting his arguments with well researched and detailed facts. If you are looking for a book about the lack of truth in American Christianity, this is the book for you. If, however, you are looking for a book that is warm and cuddly, you will want to cross this book off your reading list.

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5.23.2009

Success!!

Our yard SALE was a HUGE success! (Although I still have 5 boxes full of crap I have to find a place for again in the house.) We made over $350 in 12 hours of sales (8am-2pm each day)!!!

I'm currently fried to a crisp, but we had BEAUTIFUL weather for the SALE. It looked like rain a few times, but never a drop, and sun most of the two days.

I'm tired and need a nap. Hope you all have a GREAT holiday weekend! Take a moment to remember those who have protected us over the years - happy MEMORIAL DAY!!

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5.21.2009

Tomorrow is S day...

... that's right. Tomorrow is the big SALE. I've been busy all week getting ready for it. I spent most of Monday and yesterday pricing and sorting all the goodies for the sale. Tuesday was my "day off" to run errands - CVS trip which I made $3.56 for taking $50 of products home with me, library to check out ALL the Gossip Girl books they had on the shelves (I'm done with four so far), a stop at the park to let Jenny play, and a fruitless stop at WAGS (they were out of my money making products). Sorry I haven't been around to blog "randomly" this week. Last weekend was pretty busy, too. We were out of town, saying goodbye to my little sister who is studying abroad in Mexico this summer. We spent Friday driving up, having lunch with my grandparents, spending the afternoon visiting with them, hanging out with my family (my sister, her BF, her BFF, my mom, and my dad - my bro and SIL are in DE, so they couldn't be there). Saturday, my mom, Jenny, and I went to watch a rehersal for the children's program at my mom and dad's church that my aunts were in charge of on Sunday. Afterwards, J and the rest of the family met us for lunch. Then, my mom and I got into the attic and got down her old homeschooling stuff so I can start prepping for Jenny this fall... I'm not crazy - she's just showing the signs of being ready to start learning to read (letter recognition, starting to recognize letter sounds, etc), so I'm getting ready to start working more constructively on those skills... after all, she's got to keep up with her Mommy, right? (I was reading on a fourth grade scale by the end of kindergarten.)

I'm super bummed about all the season finales having been the last two weeks. What are we going to do all summer? Oh yeah... enjoy our BRAND NEW DECK!! It's almost done!! They started it last weekend, and I think they should probably be done by the end of the weekend at the latest (at least I'm hoping!!!). I can't wait!!

Oh yeah... so the SALE's tomorrow... unfortunately, my friend that was supposed to be joining me is sick, so she won't be around tomorrow, but hopefully she'll be feeling better Saturday. We still have TONS of stuff to sell... especially baby stuff (and somehow I still have TONS left in storage)... we didn't even make it to the front storage closet to sift through the stuff in it (although I'm pretty sure it's mostly just empty boxes for electronics and whatnot)... oh well, there's always next year.

In other news, we think we might have found a house that is worth pursuing... we'll have to see if we can get financing for it... it seems to be a difficult property to finance (multiple people have reportedly tried), but we're hoping to get a really good agent on our side to help us. We'll see what happens.

Okay... enough rambling for tonight. I have research to do (on the house), shows to watch (OTH again, since Jason didn't stay up to watch it Monday night), and books to read (GG!!!).

Have a GREAT night and GREAT weekend!! And if you're in the Warsaw, IN area, stop by our SALE this weekend!!

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5.14.2009

Coupon preview for 5/18 newspapers...

Here is a link to a preview post about the upcoming weekend's newspaper inserts. "Cents"able Momma gets her information from couponclippers.com.

I'll be buying 4 of the "bigger" newspaper this weekend. Hope the info helps!

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Two on my lap...

I cannot count the number of times over the last couple (I actually typed "coupon" there without realizing it) of months that I have had more than one child on my lap at a time... it seems like every time one kid needs Mommy, the other one needs Mommy too!

And if I'm cuddling with one kiddo, the other kiddo decides he/she wants to cuddle at the same time... even as I type this, I have one kid in my lap and the other would be in my lap if I let her.

When we have our next baby (no, I'm NOT pregnant), will I have enough lap space??

Just the randomness that is in my brain at the moment... have a GREAT weekend!

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5.12.2009

I'm a crazy couponing lady...

...or so my family thinks. Running off of yesterday's grocery shopping post, I'm going to attempt to answer Heather's questions and pull in other thoughts related to couponing and shopping.

First, I'll attempt to answer Heather's questions...

1) What types of items do you regularly buy at Walmart (here in CA, our Walmart is just a regular one, not a supercenter...perhaps that would make a difference)?

We do have a Supercenter in Warsaw, but I tend to avoid buying any of my groceries at it, unless I'm there and am in NEED of something... the produce and meat tend to not be as good of quality in my opinion. Most of the "deals" or "steals" at Walmart are on bath/body products or candy/gum - i.e. Kotex usually has $1Qs available, and Walmart carries a small pack of pantiliners for $1.00, which makes them FREE plus tax. Walmart is also my preferred place to buy baby products - I like the Parent's Choice brand of diapers, wipes, and formula if I can't get a great deal on those products at CVS or WAGS or elsewhere.

2) Do the "steals" you find in the ads generally cause you to alter your menu, or do you simply stick with your plan and just buy whatever you need for each recipe?

I'll get more into meal planning in a following post, but the short answer is no. I don't tend to alter my menu based on what's on sale. I tend to buy ahead and freeze (we invested in a LARGE chest freezer last November). I tend to menu plan based on what's in the cupboards/freezer. I tend to do my monthly menu shopping in one shot, unless I need "fresh" ingredients for a meal, then I'll pick it up within a week or so of that particular meal.

3) What type of coupon sorter do you use? A binder w/ baseball card holders or some other type?

I "built" a box. I basically figured out what size of a box I thought would work (it's already too small less than a month later), and made dividers. I sort my coupons by expiration date (most people sort them by product type) and then have a "coupon database" spreadsheet I've created on my computer that I print out every other week or so with all my coupons listed alphabetically (with expiration dates listed). I find that this works for me, but others have other methods. I have tried sorting by product type, but found I was doing too much "searching" and couldn't easily find coupons I thought I had, and often didn't keep up with purging the expired coupons.

4) Do you typically write your list according to the layout of the store? You mentioned you only go down the aisles you need, but I generally have at least one or two items I've missed and always have to go back...I hate that!

I tend not to organize my list by the layout - although, that would save some time. I, too, tend to miss an item or two, but unless it's a NEED, I tend to push it to my next trip. My main grocery store (Owens - local Kroger affliate) just reorganized the store, and I can't find anything in it, so it'll be awhile before I can organize my list accordingly, and I don't shop the other store frequently enough to know where things are.

5) Where do you get your coupons from? Do you buy multiple papers? Receive them from someone? Buy them online?

I get coupons from many sources. I print them off the internet - coupons.com, smartsource.com, redplum.com, etc. NEVER pay for coupons on the internet - it's illegal to sell coupons! I also buy the weekend paper when I know the coupons are going to be worthwhile - you can find out what coupons are going to be in your local paper online at couponclippers.com. If it's a "normal" coupon week - one or two inserts per paper - I tend to get two papers. (I have two choices for a local paper - one carries the RedPlum insert and costs $.75 more than the other that doesn't carry the RedPlum insert. I decide which paper to buy based on what the RedPlum insert will have in it - I tend not to use most of the coupons in the RedPlum insert.) If it's a "big" coupon week - multiple SmartSource inserts, P&G inserts, etc - I tend to buy 3 or 4 papers, and I tend to buy the more expensive paper, as it tends to have a few extra coupons due to having a larger distribution area. Another great source of coupons is reading various blogs online that will alert you to coupons on various websites - moneysavingmom.com is a great resource. Another great way to get coupons is to request samples online - walmart.com is a great place to get free samples of products, and most come with a "high dollar" coupon (I got three free samples in the mail today, and two of the products came with "high dollar" coupons)!

6) Do you find that with all the "great" deals you get, you actually use all of the products? I recall seeing a number of people snagging great deals on J&J products at RiteAid a couple weeks ago, but thought to myself - "There's no way I a) need all of that or b) could even use half of it."

I have a rule of thumb with great deals... I don't pay money for anything I won't use (and that includes tax - coupons can't be used to pay tax). However, that said, if I have a item I NEED (like allergy medicine) that is going to cost "x" without any "deals", I allow myself to spend "x" for everything I am getting. Example: last week I had a net shopping trip total of $32.28 - I HAD to buy allergy medicine ($12.49 each - bought two boxes) and diapers for a new baby gift ($8.99 on sale)... those items alone totaled more than my total for the entire trip. As far as buying large quanitities of items, if it doesn't cost you anything, it's a great way to help somebody else out. Create a stockpile of items that you aren't able to use and donate them to a local women's shelter or other community resources. Often times, using a coupon at WAGS or CVS will result in a "money maker" (you get a coupon for more than you paid for the item, even with tax, if you buy the item), so I will buy multiples of these items, even if we can only use a few of them. (Toothpaste - the high quality kind even - is one item you should NEVER have to pay for again if you shop at WAGS or CVS.)

7) My in-laws give me the ads from every Sunday paper. Do you typically cut out *everything* and then use whatever you can for a good bargain (i.e., even if it's not the brand of shampoo you typically use)? Or, do you only cut ones you think you'll actually use?

I used to clip only the coupons I thought I'd use. And I used to be brand loyal. Now, I clip EVERYTHING - even for items I'll never use. Honestly, it saves time, since you don't have to think about whether or not you might possible use each coupon. However, that said, I don't print coupons off the internet that I'm sure I'll never use, and most of the time I don't print them off the internet until I'm sure I'll use them (they are expensive to print - in terms of paper and ink), unless they're a high demand (really good coupon) coupon that won't last. I use whatever coupons I can to get the best price possible for whatever items I need (regardless of brand). ***Note: when using coupons, you can often buy multiple packages of smaller sizes for much less than buying fewer packages of larger sizes. Always compare price by the smallest increment possible - i.e. ounces, sheets/rolls, loads, etc.*** Coupons that you know you're not going to use (for products you don't buy), you can share with someone who might use them. Coupons that you don't use before they expire, you can donate to a US military base - they are able to use coupons for approximately six months past the expiration date.

Hopefully that answered most of Heather's questions. I'll try to conclude with some of my other thoughts regarding coupons.

* I'm not a couponing expert. I'm still fairly "new" to the couponing world. I've shared what works for me, but just because it works for me, it might not work for you.
* Coupons should save you money. Don't buy a product just because you have a coupon for it. Store brands are often cheaper than name brands, even with coupons.
* Buy smaller items with coupons to save more money - watch for coupons that DON'T have minimum sizes listed, as you can often buy trial sizes for FREE or pretty cheap.
* Organize your coupons - however this looks for you - if you can't find the coupon when you're at the store, it does you no good to have clipped it.
* Store coupons can be used with manufacturer's coupons. However, you can't use two manufacturer's coupons on one items.
* Look for stores that accept competitor's coupons or price match - these can be a big time saver if you don't want to drive all over town for the best deals.

Q4U: What works for you? How do you organize your coupons? Do you use coupons to help others as well as save your family money? Do you have any other couponing questions for me? I'll try my best to answer any other questions, and I'd love to hear how you coupon!

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5.11.2009

Miles and miles of aisles and aisles...

I hate grocery shopping. I really, really don't like to do it. Alone, I don't mind it. But with anybody in tow (hubbie included), I despise it. When I go grocery shopping, I have a strategic plan in mind to get in and out with everything on my list* in as little time and with as little money out of my pocket as possible. When I have "distractions", I rarely get out as quickly as I'd like and I usually end up spending more money than I'd like.

Before I even think about leaving the house to go to the store, I have a series of steps I take to get myself prepared. First, I check the menu for the next two weeks. (I avoid going to the store at all costs, so if I can get anything I know I'll need for at least two weeks, I can usually avoid going more than twice a month.) I also check the white board on the fridge for anything we've run out of or are running low on - most of these items are Walmart or Aldi items, but sometimes I can pick them up at Owens (local Kroger) or Marsh for less than I can elsewhere. Then I check the ads to see if there are any "steals".

I make a separate grocery list for each store I'm stopping at (up to 7 stores: Walmart, Owens, Marsh, CVS, WAGS, Aldi, and Aunt Millie's Bread Outlet), and I make a list of all the places I'm planning to stop - otherwise I often end up back at house going over my lists/reciepts and realizing I forgot bread or some other essential. And once I'm home, there's NO WAY I'm going back out! I also pull out any coupons I'm planning to use at the various stores and put them in the front of my coupon sorter clipped together in store groups (with a label for which store I'm planning to use them at).

I make sure I have my coupon list (my database of what coupons I have - it's listed alphabetically with the expiration date noted and the coupons are organized by expiration date - I have too many to remember what I have and to take the time to search through them in the store), my coupon sorter, my calculator, some writing utensil(s), my ads for the various stores, and my list(s). These all go in my "shopping bag" - a WAGS reusuable shopping bag that is the perfect size for all of the above and my wallet, phone, and keys.

I FINALLY force myself out the door, my list of stops in hand - I have to figure out what the BEST possible order is in order to be MOST efficient. If we're going to be gone for over two hours, I try to schedule a stop at the library in the middle, so the kiddos can play for a bit and David can eat. Usually, we try not to hit all the stores in one day - if I have to go to Walmart or Aldi, I try to break my trip into two trips in order to not kill myself dragging two kids two years and under in and out of too many stores in one day. Also, if I have any cold items to buy, I try to stop at that store last - otherwise I do keep a "cold bag" in my van to help keep things cold if I'm not headed straight home.

At the store, I arrange the two kids in a cart (or two if J is with me). I get my list out and work my way through the store - only going down the aisles that I need to go down. At the register, I try to separate my groceries putting all the cold items together on the front of the belt. I hand my coupons to the cashier and pay I didn't break the bank (I haven't gotten to the point where I actually total my order as I shop - that's the next step in my saving money at the grocery store process) and that I'm somewhere near my estimated expense budget. I decline help out to my car, as I am "super mom", and I proceed to stack the groceries in the back of my car, wedging them here, there, and everywhere. I buckle the kids in and we're off to the next store.

When we FINALLY get home, everybody's exhausted. I put all the groceries away - Jenny helps - and get the kids a snack or lunch (depending on the time). Then I sit down and evaluate my receipts.

It's a chore. I really don't like it. But, I LOVE getting a great deal! So, if I can manage to get a GREAT deal, it's usually worth the effort.

Q4U: Do you like to go grocery shopping? How often do you go? Do you use a list? coupons? have a budget? What are some great deals you got at the store this week? I'd love to hear your view!

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5.07.2009

Owning versus Renting

We've been thinking a lot about the costs of owning a home versus renting. We've been renters for our entire married life so far (4 years this month), the last two of which have been in our current home. We have started looking (again) at homes in the area and have started to seriously consider buying a house in the "near" future. (What the "near" future is will SIGNIFICANTLY depend on what financing we might be able to get.)

One of the things we've been looking at closely is the amount of rent we pay each month. For the same payment, or less, we could be owning a nice home. However, that does not take into account all the "extras" of home ownership - gas, electric, repairs, upkeep, insurance, etc. We realize that our current financial situation (although we have MORE than enough for all our needs and most of our wants) is less than "desirable" for home ownership (at least in the eyes of the banks/lenders), so we're working towards saving up a significant amount of money for a down payment. I would LOVE to be able to save enough to pay CASH for a home, but I know that's probably a HUGE stretch for the time frame in which we are looking to buy.

One of my biggest obstacles in buying a home right now is the fact that we're looking here. I'm not sure I want to live here "permanently", so I'm going to be EXTREMELY picky in finding a house to buy. However, if J was up for buying a house in GR or the surrounding area, I'd be a LOT LESS PICKY. And, this may be what ends up happening. By the time we save our desired amount and are ready to actually buy a house, we may be able to move to our desired location (or at least MY desired location).

I'd really like to start taking "drastic" action to be able to save as much as possible towards my goal of paying CASH for a home, rather than paying double for the home by taking out huge loans from the bank (and yes, I've calculated the interest we would end up paying if we took out a loan on a house with a little downpayment).

We'll see what happens. We've contacted a few banks/lenders to start the pre-approval process to find out how much house we can REALLY afford right now. I think this result will significantly influence our decision-making process about buying now or waiting a while.

Q4U: Do you own or rent? If you rent - what are the biggest benefits and/or bummers about renting? If you own - what are some of the "hidden" costs you've discovered about owning your own home? Any advice for a couple of home buying novices? I'd love your input and advice!!

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5.06.2009

It's been a day...

This morning started out normal, almost better than normal even... and then we had some "fun". J brought David in around 6:30am to eat (normally, he'd have been screaming for over an hour and I'd get up after awhile to feed him... this morning I didn't even hear him cry). I fed him and changed his diaper - poor little guy is sick (thanks to his sister, I'm sure), and J took him back to bed before he left for work.

I fell back asleep until 8ish, when I started debating whether to try to get a shower in before the kids woke up (they usually wake up between 7:30 and 8:30). I decided to wait til after I got Jenny some breakfast before attempting to shower, so I snoozed til she got up around 8:45 (yeah, I could have showered, oh well). I got her breakfast and got in the shower. Got dressed, cleaned her up and let her watch a few minutes of Caillou while I had my quiet time.

Since our deck is in demolition stage right now, it doesn't have any "walls", so it has a very nice view of our yard (about 4 acres). It was calling my name. I grabbed a mug of coffee, my devo book, journal, and Bible and went out on it. (I had left the sliding door open so I could hear if the kids needed/wanted me for anything.) It was "Barakel-esqe". I loved it.

I came back inside about 20 minutes later, and went in the living room to check on Jenny. No Jenny. I saw her door open, so I peeked inside. No Jenny. As I looked down the hallway, the door to the entryway was opened (we keep it locked). I ran to the door, and saw that the door to the outside was also opened (we keep it locked as well). I quickly ran outside (books still in hand and barefoot) and started calling for my two year old. She was nowhere in sight. I ran around to the back of the house, praying that she had at least remember her yard boundaries and had gone in the backyard to play. She was standing next to the woodpile in her t-shirt, panties, and church shoes. I almost cried. I quickly herded her back inside and tried to explain to her that she was NOT allowed to go outside without Mommy or Daddy. I couldn't even punish her, I was so upset. I asked her why she went outside: "I wanted to see the birdies!"

I got her dressed and David up and dressed as well, and we headed to town to run some errands. She patiently waited at the door for me this time!

I scored some AWESOME deals... WAGS, CVS, and Marsh (local grocery). The retail value of the stuff I got was: $184.38. I paid: $37.78 OOP, used $10 ECBs, have $4.50 RR and $11 ECB left. Net of the trip: $32.28... a savings of 82.5%!! My WAGS (total: $11.67, saved 82.4%) and CVS (total: $15.51, saved 73.3%) purchases are pictured below. My Marsh purchases included: four pounds of fresh strawberries, four pounds of sausage, and 2.61 pounds of bananas (total $10.66, saved 59% w/o using any coupons!).

We also made a stop at the library while we were out. It was really quiet in the children's section - unlike the past when we've always gone after Story Time, along with all 15-20 other families that were at Story Time. Jenny and David were able to sit and play with some of the toys they have available for awhile, and Jenny and I were both able to pick out a few books to read this week.

When we got home from all of our running around, I had brought all the goodies in and put them on the counter to put away. Jenny decided she was going to "help" me - I was still in the other room taking off my shoes and didn't know she was trying to "help". I heard a THUD. I ran in the kitchen to find one of the gallons of milk we'd just bought (free thanks to WIC) emptying all over my floor. I managed to pick it up in such a way as to be able to save about 1/3 of it, but my floor was now COVERED in milk. I sent Jenny to her room so she'd be out of the way while I figured out how to clean it up. I ended up grabbing all the dirty towels that needed to be washed soon anyway, and ended up doing an unplanned load of laundry.

I was able to get both kids fed and down for naps without too much problems. And now I'm trying to recover from today, hoping that the "worst" is behind me. I'm so glad my weekend starts tonight!

Food for Thought: What's your week been like? Any good deals this week? Any "funny" kid stories to share? I'd love to know that I'm not the only one having a "week"! Leave me your thoughts!

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5.04.2009

I'm going sailing...

...Garage Sale-ing that is.

It's been a garage sale prep day at our house. I've been really bad the past couple of weeks about keeping up with my "schedule" to get everything ready EARLY, so I'm not running around like crazy the last couple of days. So today, I sat down with my list/schedule and took inventory of what I've done and what I still need to do, made an updated list and got to work. I managed to get my kitchen, bathroom, and bedroom done in less than an hour. The only rooms I have left to finish are the kids' room (their clothes), the front closet (might take awhile), and the living room (DVDs, nicknacks, etc). My den is looking a little frazzled - my MIL had glanced in there when they were here a couple weeks ago and mentioned it when I was talking to her on the phone this week. Hopefully I'll be able to get through the rest of the house this week and start to make some order of the stuff I've picked out for the sale - it's currently in piles with no rhyme or reason.

I'm getting in the GS mood. I've been driving around town the past couple of weekends, seeing signs out for people having sales. We've even driven past a few sales. But I haven't stopped at any yet, and I haven't been looking in the paper for the sales. I'm trying to wait until AFTER our sale to "spend money" at other sales. Plus, our profits are going towards our trip to Delaware to visit my brother and sister-in-law in June. And to help pay for our portable DVD players we bought for the trip. What did we use to use to keep little kids entertained on long trips??

This post is probably getting random, since I'm doing way too many other things while I'm trying to write it... I've been updating our family's blog and talking on the phone and watching the kiddos play, plus my brain is going one-hundred miles a minute right now (and my allergies are clouding it up). So, I think I'm going to go do something else productive.

Leave me your thoughts on GS. What are some good deals you've gotten in past years? What are your GS items-to-buy this year? Are you having a GS this year? Any other advice or comments GS related or otherwise are also welcome!

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